juz got the news saying that, my bro-in-law is not agree with our plan.. about letting my mom bring adam, my nephew back to kuching for a month, and will go back to KL for few months.. this plan will be the best method for my mom and adam to keep in touch, in other way, can take good care of baby adam.. but how dissapoint i am.. why can my BIL be so selfish.. we'd already sacrificed, letting our mom go KL for 3 months.. yes i know, we're all grown up, but without a mom at home is kinda hard.. no one cooks for us, everyday will have problems on thinking what to eat for the next meal.. now.. i dont really bother bout my meal.. nothing to eat? just skip.. one day a meal will be just nice to fill in the stomach.. as BIL said, my mom staying in KL is good, got ppl cook for them.. come back from work, and the meal is served.. how bout us back in kuching? why not he just agree with us, we can dont see our mom for like few months.. why not he dont see his son for a month? now the technology is so good, 21st century! got webcam! u can online and see your son anytime u want! and a month for him is like a blink of eye! imagine he works till late at night every working days.. reach home also almost 9? 10? he can just go sleep/rest and the next day will be another working day.. weekends, can go shopping and the month will just past like that! then the following month he will see his son for few months already! why cant he be a lil more considerate.. at least both side have to sacrifice? oh yea.. u said u will gonna miss your son.. how bout us? we're not going to miss our mom? dang! how selfish u r! oh yea u said if mom wants to see adam, fly to KL? u know how old is our mom now or not? asking her to keep flying here and there? hello!!! flying on a plane isnt that fun! its tiring! i'm tired to say bout this again..